What it means
You are drawn to unusual, independent, intelligent people; a partner is above all a friend. In a relationship it matters to keep your own time, your own people and the right to be different. Taste leans to the original and the unlike.
The flip side is distance: everyday closeness and stormy feelings come harder than conversation. A partner may feel held at arm's length.
Not about you if you need complete merging with a partner, and friendship in a couple seems superfluous.
How to check it on yourself
Check it against your past — write your answer down before you look at the chart.
If you have Venus in Aquarius
What should match. Think of your last three partners. At least two were first friends or part of a shared group, and in a relationship it matters to you to keep your own time and your own people.
When it’s not about you. Two of the three appeared at once as a romantic interest, and shared time matters to you more than your own — then this is not about you.
Your sign and house of Venus — in the free calculation: build my chart. How we check the rest — the site’s method.