What it means
Love here is to feed, to warm, to remember little things: what the person likes, when they have a hard day. Family, home and a shared past matter; gifts are often handmade or tied to a memory. Money is spent more willingly on home and loved ones than on yourself.
The flip side is that grievances are remembered long, and care can turn into guardianship no one asked for. A loved one's coldness hurts more than an open argument.
Not about you if in close relationships freedom and your own space matter more to you than a shared home and caring for each other.
How to check it on yourself
Check it against your past — write your answer down before you look at the chart.
If you have Venus in Cancer
What should match. Think of three gifts to loved ones over the past year. At least two were for the home, food, handmade or tied to the past, not a fashionable item and not money.
When it’s not about you. Two of the three were fashionable items, gift certificates or money — then this is not about you.
Your sign and house of Venus — in the free calculation: build my chart. How we check the rest — the site’s method.