What it means
You are drawn to beautiful, polite, balanced people; it matters that things in the couple are fair and pleasant. You want to smooth a conflict, find the middle, reach agreement. Taste leans to the graceful and well-matched: clothes, home, company.
The flip side is indecision and adapting: for the sake of peace it is easy to concede more than you want, and loneliness is hard to bear. The decision of “which of the two” can drag on for months.
Not about you if in an argument it is easier for you to fight than to look for a compromise, and life without a partner does not weigh on you.
How to check it on yourself
Check it against your past — write your answer down before you look at the chart.
If you have Venus in Libra
What should match. Think of your last three conflicts with loved ones. In at least two you give way or look for the middle so as not to quarrel, even when you are right.
When it’s not about you. In two of the three you stand your ground to the end — then this is not about you.
Your sign and house of Venus — in the free calculation: build my chart. How we check the rest — the site’s method.