What it means
Love is often secret, unspoken or self-sacrificing; you want to help someone who is doing badly without publicity. Joy is in solitude, music, nature, creativity for yourself. Attachment to people others do not see.
The flip side is unrequited feelings and relationships that cannot be spoken about; it is hard to admit your own desires. You are drawn to love those who are unavailable.
Not about you if all your feelings are always open and you have never had secret crushes.
How to check it on yourself
Check it against your past — write your answer down before you look at the chart.
If you have Venus in the 12th house
What should match. Think of the last ten years. There was at least one strong attraction that nobody knew about or that you never managed to express.
When it’s not about you. None — all your attractions were open — then this is not about you.
Your sign and house of Venus — in the free calculation: build my chart. How we check the rest — the site’s method.