What it means
You are drawn to witty, quick, many-sided people; flirting is messaging, jokes and arguing till night. You like it when there is a lot that is new in a relationship: places, acquaintances, topics. A gift is a book, a trip, an experience, not a thing for years.
The flip side is that sameness kills interest faster than any quarrel, and deep feelings easily hide behind a joke. It can be hard for a partner to tell where lightness ends and seriousness begins.
Not about you if you are drawn to quiet people, and talking and messaging in a relationship are hardly needed by you.
How to check it on yourself
Check it against your past — write your answer down before you look at the chart.
If you have Venus in Gemini
What should match. Think of how your last three crushes began. At least two began with conversation, messaging or shared humor, not with looks and not with a deed.
When it’s not about you. Two of the three began with a glance or a deed, and words came later — then this is not about you.
Your sign and house of Venus — in the free calculation: build my chart. How we check the rest — the site’s method.