What it means
The first impression is softness, pleasantness, taste: people are drawn to start a conversation, and starting a conflict with you is harder than with others. Looks and style mean a lot — both for you and for how you are seen. Much in life opens through being liked.
The flip side is a habit of being liked: it is hard to argue and say unpleasant things, and easy to adapt to expectations. When being liked does not work, the bewilderment is stronger than in others.
Not about you if the first impression of you is strictness or prickliness, and being liked by people does not matter to you.
How to check it on yourself
Check it against your past — write your answer down before you look at the chart.
If you have Venus in the 1st house
What should match. Ask two or three acquaintances what their first impression of you was. At least two will say something like “pleasant,” “soft,” “beautiful,” not “strict” or “sharp.”
When it’s not about you. Two of the three will remember strictness, pressure or coldness — then this is not about you.
Your sign and house of Venus — in the free calculation: build my chart. How we check the rest — the site’s method.