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Ego Authority

A decision from will and desire: “do I want this, what will I get out of it?” The voice of the heart speaks spontaneously and briefly.

Where it comes from

Your Heart (Ego) is defined — the center of will and promises. It is responsible not for what is right but for “do I want to invest myself.”

How it sounds

Briefly and selfishly: “I want” or “I don’t want,” “what’s in it for me.” The wording sounds egoistic — and that’s fine, that is its job.

What it looks like in life

You promised a neighbor help with the fence back in May — the fence stands as it stood. And your own garage you clear down to the concrete in two weekends, and nobody asked you to. At school they collect for a gift for the teacher: you either cover half the sum and take it all on yourself, or you don’t take part at all — there’s no middle. Once a month it comes over you: in one evening you rearrange the furniture, fix the faucet and sign the child up for a club, and then for two weeks you lie around and get angry at yourself for being lazy. Your family adapted long ago: they ask for important things in your good week.

How long to wait

Quickly, but in bursts: the Ego has its own rhythm and is not always available. Between surges of will it is better not to promise anything.

Where people most often go wrong

Promising out of a sense of duty. A person like this doesn’t keep a promise made without “I want” — and then blames themselves.

Where to start

Before agreeing, ask out loud: “What do I get out of this?” If there is no answer, it’s not worth agreeing, whatever the justification.

Check the decision against the authenticity of your own “I want.”

How it connects to the rest of the chart

Authority works as a pair with the Strategy of your Type: first Strategy brings the situation to you, then Authority tells you whether it’s yours or not. And Profile describes the role in which all of this happens. The defined centers are what Authority is made of.

This Authority comes from a defined Heart center. It occurs in these Types: Manifestor, Projector.

Frequently asked questions

Can I change my Authority?

No. Authority is determined by which centers in the chart are defined, and that is set by the moment of birth. The only thing that changes is how far a person uses it.

What if a decision has to be made right now?

A real decision takes this long: quickly, but in bursts: the Ego has its own rhythm and is not always available. Between surges of will it is better not to promise anything. If there’s no time at all, it’s usually someone else’s urgency, not yours. Pressure to “decide immediately” is in itself a reason to be wary.

How is Authority different from the Strategy of a Type?

Strategy says HOW you enter a situation: wait to respond, wait for the invitation or inform. Authority — WHAT you decide with when the situation is already in front of you. They work together: first Strategy, then Authority.

What if I’ve been deciding with my head all my life?

Start with small things: where to go to eat, whether to take this meeting. On small things the difference between “this suits me” and “this is logical” becomes noticeable quickly, and that’s where trust in yourself is built.