What it means
Idealizing family and childhood; in the family there are unclear things, secrets or an absent parent. The dream home is by water, in silence.
The flip side is instability in everyday life and a feeling that there is no real home.
Not about you if everything in your family was clear and without secrets.
How to check it on yourself
Check it against your past — write your answer down before you look at the chart.
If you have Neptune in the 4th house
What should match. There was a secret or something unclear in the family — about origins, an illness, an absent parent — that came out later.
When it’s not about you. There were no secrets in the family — then this is not about you.
Your sign and house of Neptune — in the free calculation: build my chart. How we check the rest — the site’s method.